Food Inheritance
Food Inheritance by Michelle Petty-Grue
Collard greens aren't the same without
smoky neck bones and unctuous
ham hocks. I've tried making them without these
queens because I was taught from a young age that
fat would steal my crown,
diminish my own royalty.
Fat on the body and fat in the mouth were equal
transgressions.
Standing in my reclaimed nobility,
I invite the collard greens back and all the "bad fat"
foods that gained those labels for little better reason than
Black people ate them.
I invite back the memories of the five of us at the table,
embodying the lyrics of that Babyface song – the simple
times of yesterday.
Drowned out by diet culture, those collard greens tried to
teach me and now I’m listening:
- Eating for pleasure is more virtuous than using
food to punish or alter ourselves.
- Eating ethnic food is good, especially your own.
- My diet doesn't need to be any more white than I do, and
I don't need to be white.